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Social Security

I spend three hours with a case worker at Social Security this morning.

G-d Don't Make No Junk

I bike to 10th church on Wooster on my new, super-cool, electronic bike.
Before church, I have my traditional slice of pizza at Ben's on Spring and Thompson.

Setterly and Jonathan are the greeters at church tonight.
I am happy to see them. I am relieved to see them. I laugh with them. Genuinely.
They are great people.
I will miss them if I leave New York. (I think during the service later)

After Church, it's warm and humid, but it's a wonderful August night.
The expectations of what the summer might be, are gone, we are in it, summer is here.

Setterly and I lean against a parked cab, our feet unsteady on the cobble stones.
Setterly is tall and warm with a good a sense of humor and the voice of a clarinet.
I like her.

"Hey, I met another Charlie today."

"What?"

"Yup, another Charlie"

"That's not right."

"Apparently, there are lots of Charlies out there. Maybe this Charlie was ying, an impostor."

I gently goad Setterly into taking a spin on my new bike.
She's game, having driven a Harley in another life.

I adjust the seat for her and She rides the bike down the block.

She can't get it to work.

"PULL BACK ON THE THROTTLE, THE RIGHT HANDLE BAR!"

"GOT IT! OH MY GOSH, SO COOL!"

There's a movie being shot. A big crew, lights, trailers.
A young beautiful PA begs us to be quiet, in that intense passive aggressive way that cant help but get under your skin (just a little).

Film crews in the city often make me cranky with envy. Through the years, I've surrendered to them. Just another small frustration of city life.

As she makes a sharp turn at the end of the block, my bags falls off the back of the bike. When she returns (breathless and excited) I tell her I should go get my bag. She realizes what has happened, she doesn't miss a beat, and jogs down to the end of the street to retrieve my bag.

"Whatda got in here? an andiron?

- "it's my bike lock, it weighs a ton."

" You lock this thing up just like a regular bike? ... Huh.
So, that was fun, but why, uh, why a motorized bike?"

I reluctantly spell out the sad clues to my terrible disease without actually naming it. Never naming it. And she doesn't ask.
I forlornly explain that my muscles could be weakened if I work them too hard.

Then Setterly adds,

"for now."

And I love her for that.

"Don't be mesmerized by what they tell you. Do not give credence to a disease that doesn't exist.
It is error. As my teacher told me, it's not even about healing, there is nothing to heal,
because there is nothing wrong with you. You are fine.

We are a reflection of G-d.
G-d intended us to joyous exalted beings. We reflect his image."

I tell her its all very confusing, dealing with doctors, coming to church.
I feel doomed when I speak to anyone in the medical world.

I tell her I'd like to work with a practitioner but I'm on medication.
A well known practitioner told me he couldn't work with me if I was on medication.
He was nice about it, I understood.

"You know Charlie, there ARE practitioners that will heal people who are on medication.
That medication can't harm you or your healing because it is mindless material, it is powerless.
I can give you a few names. Do want some names?

You know what, call me.
Call me. Let me give you my card, did I give you my card before?"

(she did, but I took this second card anyway, I love cards for some reason)

"We've got to hang out, you and me, you're going to be my new (go to) friend, my new (hang out) buddy.
Let's hang out, lets go to a movie."

I tell her I will, I'l call her. (and I just might).

She ends our (heart to heart) our (one on one) by suggesting I read the weekly Christian Science lesson.

"I read it every day, it makes such a difference, it really does, even if you just read a paragraph.
And take a look at the 139th psalm. And remember, G-d don't make no junk."

Something my friend Norman used to tell me.
These kind of spiritual slogans were categorically absent from my Connecticut suburban upbringing.

I say goodbye to Setterly, promising to call her, and she walks north toward Broome.

I am alone with the movie crew.

I straddle my bike and check my messages. With my cellphone and mo-ped on the cobble stone street, I feel like I might be Turin or Milan.

Oh no.

My sister has left a message about Mom. She decided to tell Mom about Uncle Winslow's passing tonight (rather than this weekend) and my mother broke down. My mother is in shock. She tells me to please call mom.

I try call her, but the answering machine picks up. So I leave a message saying that I'll call tomorrow bright and early.

I sit on my bike. I am still. My face is plain with just the slightest hint of sadness, of resignation. I solemnly stare at nothing in particular, as if by being still, by being plain and unemotional, I just might realize that all of this, these recent events, is a long and difficult day dream, not my reality, not my future. By underplaying the seriousness, I will be rewarded (somehow).

And my life feels so complex that I can't begin to untie it. If it had been just one thing, I would be crouched on my electronic bike crying, sobbing. But with (so much) at one time, I almost feel,

nothing.

I power up my bike and zoom through lower Manhattan, zig zagging in the tiny charm of the west village, past dog walkers and Wednesday night partiers, through the bacchanal of the meat packing district, and finally throttling at full speed up empty tenth avenue to midtown. And with no traffic, the wind catching my shirt, I am a movie star, I am Brad Pitt racing up Manhattan on my shiny new toy, and I feel awesome.

Psalm 139 (New King James Version)

For the Chief Musician. A Psalm of David.

1 O LORD, You have searched me and known me.
2 You know my sitting down and my rising up;
You understand my thought afar off.
3 You comprehend my path and my lying down,
And are acquainted with all my ways.
4 For there is not a word on my tongue,
But behold, O LORD, You know it altogether.
5 You have hedged me behind and before,
And laid Your hand upon me.
6 Such knowledge is too wonderful for me;
It is high, I cannot attain it.

7 Where can I go from Your Spirit?
Or where can I flee from Your presence?
8 If I ascend into heaven, You are there;
If I make my bed in hell, behold, You are there.
9 If I take the wings of the morning,
And dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea,
10 Even there Your hand shall lead me,
And Your right hand shall hold me.
11 If I say, “Surely the darkness shall fall[a] on me,”
Even the night shall be light about me;
12 Indeed, the darkness shall not hide from You,
But the night shines as the day;
The darkness and the light are both alike to You.

13 For You formed my inward parts;
You covered me in my mother’s womb.
14 I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made;[b]
Marvelous are Your works,
And that my soul knows very well.
15 My frame was not hidden from You,
When I was made in secret,
And skillfully wrought in the lowest parts of the earth.
16 Your eyes saw my substance, being yet unformed.
And in Your book they all were written,
The days fashioned for me,
When as yet there were none of them.

17 How precious also are Your thoughts to me, O God!
How great is the sum of them!
18 If I should count them, they would be more in number than the sand;
When I awake, I am still with You.

19 Oh, that You would slay the wicked, O God!
Depart from me, therefore, you bloodthirsty men.
20 For they speak against You wickedly;
Your enemies take Your name in vain.[c]
21 Do I not hate them, O LORD, who hate You?
And do I not loathe those who rise up against You?
22 I hate them with perfect hatred;
I count them my enemies.

23 Search me, O God, and know my heart;
Try me, and know my anxieties;
24 And see if there is any wicked way in me,
And lead me in the way everlasting.

DISCOVER

Yesterday is about bills and paperwork.
I hate it.

I gather mounds of paperwork, bills, stamps, folding files, brochures, my laptop and my kitchen trash can in my bedroom,
to bait myself into paying, placing, filing, and calling. With added insurance bills, folders on health care, booklets on living wills, a care giver's guide (for me)... it's just awful.

I try to to set up bill pay (on line). Con-ed's webpage doesn't believe it is actually me that is signing up. According to them, I have the wrong personal details. I need to print something out and send it to them to prove it is me.

My printer is broken. It won't work with my new operating system, my new laptop, so I give up. I let go of that little dream.

None of these web sign in applications actually work consistently. I have been signing up for disability online.
They give you a code number so that you can return to your application whenever you like.
The code doesn't work when I go back to it. I took a picture of it. They don't recognize it.
It is discouraging. I start over.

I open my Discover card bill.

The Discover card quietly upped my interest to 30% without notifying me ( I notice, my blood racing).

I call them. The representative responds (without missing a beat)

"Oh, no problem, I can reduce that to 20%".

Discover makes a profit from people who don't carefully look at their bills.
This is cynical and un-american.

"No thanks (say I) I will simply pay off the balance, and let my card go dormant.

(FOREVER)

Canceling is a ding on your credit.

"and hey you, you on the phone, I know you need to make a living, somewhere, somehow... but you work for a dishonest company, and you are carrying out their dishonest practices and this may harm you in life (in the greater scheme of things) something to think about to consider, so ... so best of luck to you!"

(I really did say something like that)

I check my bank balance online.
I've ordered a slipcover for my tattered sofa.
Pottery Barn has billed my twice.
I sit on the phone with Pottery Barn and my bank going through last transactions and answering pre-setup questions about myself (mother's maiden name) to prove it is me.

When dealing with this kind of thing, one needs to be carried by the current and not fight, or you will drown.
One needs relax and not react.
According to Kaballah, each time you react, you are closer to death.

I take a break.

I go for a swim. I go at 7 in the evening and there are happy kids in the pool with parents. My building feels communal and nice.

When I get back from my swim, Jackie (my neighbor, my sitcom neighbor) has left me pasta with clam sauce and a refreshing summer salad on my kitchen counter. Jackie is Italian and knows how to cook pasta perfectly. It is delicious. I text her "thnx".

I check messages.

My cousin Winslow called.
My uncle, Winslow senior, has died this morning.

(I just had lunch with him at the Ritz in Naples a year and a half ago)

Old age is a slippery slope. When my aunt died, Uncle Winslow quickly followed.

I call my cousin back.

I sit on my tattered couch in the almost dark and have a formal conversation with Winslow on my iphone.
Winslow (my age) is a highly paid executive and speaks in complete sentences, declamatory sentences, like he's running a conference call. He uses my name in the middle of every sentence.

His approach makes me defended. But he is doing the best he can. This is the way he has learned to communicate. He is a good cousin to me and I am jealous of his restored Arts and Crafts home, two vacation homes, and million dollar salary.

I am sad for uncle, but he was lost without my Aunt.

I didn't know him well. But I'm glad he was my uncle.
He was an admirable man, tall and handsomely American, president of the bank, a regular guy, a direct descendant of the May Flower. When he married my aunt, they discovered that thery were actually very distant cousins. (odd)

There was conflict between my parents and my aunt and uncle.
My aunt had their parents' 1920's large Adirondack style summer home on many acres looking over Lake Michigan, secretly deeded to her (without my father's knowledge). I guess my father was hurt, but my mother was enraged.

it could be argued that it made sense, my father (permanently on the east coast) simply wasn't around.
Still, some discussion was required. I guess they didn't talk much in that family.

I don't know or understand any of that. I'll never know what went on.
But I WILL miss seeing my uncle.

PINOCCHIO

FACEBOOK:

ELLIOTT:
So.. photo of new wheels please
Yesterday at 6:08pm · Comment · Like · See Wall-to-Wall

CHARLIEROBERTS:
complications
Yesterday at 8:56pm · Delete

ELLIOTT:
How so?
3 hours ago · Delete

CHARLIEROBERTS:
The bike shorted out three times after i bought it,
I returned it and he's looking at it.
It is something to do with not knowing when a new battery is fully charged?

I got stuck in the middle of Central Park. Ugh....
He's going to call me today after much testing.
29 minutes ago · Delete


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Saturday afternoon, I cab to a bike store on the upper east side that specializes in electronic bikes. It is the only store in Manhattan that sells them.

Whenever I push hard with my feet and legs, that is peddle so hard that I use all of my strength, I am weakening my legs.
This has been happening more and more.


So I stopped riding my bike. I've been taking cabs which I really hate. I get no pleasure out of rollicking around in traffic, clogging up the roads, the cab driver's dismal mood, the fishing through the wallet for the appropriate tip.
All of this brings me down.

So I'll buy an electric bike.

These bikes can both be peddled and also have a throttle which allows them to go up to 20 miles an hour.
Their batteries can sustain a ride of twenty miles before having to be recharged.

This is also (apparently) how my OWN muscle power works. I can move about and walk. But I need a day to restore after too much sustained movement. My muscles (like the lithium bicycle battery) need to be recharged.

On Saturday afternoon, I cab to York and east 84th. (cab ride about $17)

I kind of like it over there. The neighborhood feels like Manhattan circa 1985, the hoopla of building and over population hasn't found it's way there (yet). Its tree lined streets with sleepy (kind of fancy) apartment buildings, elegant townhouses, boring delis and dated Chinese restaurants, bring to mind the remote, old family, elite New York. The New York in Woody Allen movies.

This bike store on York and 84th is crowded with gorgeous folding bicycles, electronic bikes, and motorized scooters for budding movie stars.

TOYS!

Everyone should indulge in these adult toys.


I try out 5 bikes.

I zoom around the east-side neighborhood. Because it looks like you're riding a simple bicycle, and because the battery is silent, it feels like your cheating, or you're pulling off an elaborate magic trick for the neighborhood... Or you're an actor in a movie, a movie that requires you to ride a bike, but you're a weak peddler or you have a star-sized ego that dictates you not exhaust your legs peddling all day, so the props department has rigged up a bike for you to make it appear that you are vigoursly biking, but in actuality, your legs are flacidly spinning, allowing you to delight in the sunshine and leafy neighborhood.


On returning from one test drive, I meet two dudes that are electric bike fans.
These are thirty-ish men who carry themselves like nerdy outsiders in junior high.
They both own electric bikes, they have come back to this shop to take advantage of test driving OTHER electric bikes.

These guys are nerds (but are also real guys). I feel the need to be accepted by them and to make sure they don't find out that (although I am a nerd too) I am a fey complicated nerd with no real interest in electric bikes. I am here out of necessity.

I am Pinocchio meeting two odd characters that are going to whisk me off to an adventure that will get me into trouble.
If I hang around with them, try to get on their good side, I will be turned into a donkey.

The last bike I try, one of my new friends insists that I try,
"Dude, you won't be disappointed"
the last one I try, is a hot sexy muscular toy that Brad Pitt might tool around in, on the back lot of Paramount.

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I decide after lengthy cellphone conversations with Elliott to get the big stable (white) more lady like one.

It's called "The Elegant".

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On Monday I go back and buy it. After a little lecture on its workings, after laying out my American Express card, after the salesman Burt, patting me on the back, and sending me on my way with a paper bag full of tools and a bike map of New York City, the "Elegant" breaks down three times within one hour.

Jondon picks me up in his SUV at 97th and Central Park and we return the bike to the shop at east 84th and York.